Support Those with Depression


Support Those with Depression

World Mental Health Awareness Day & Depression Awareness Day


Dr. Alexander Dimitrevich
Clinical and Crisis Psychologist

Today, on World Mental Health Awareness Day and Depression Awareness Day, it’s essential to highlight the realities of depression and the importance of recognizing and supporting those who struggle with it. Depression is a complex and widespread condition, but with the right strategies and support, it can be managed.

Why is Depression Called the “Black Dog”?

The term “black dog” has become a well-known metaphor for depression, popularized by British Prime Minister Winston Churchill, who used it to describe his own struggles with the condition. But why a black dog? This metaphor captures the persistent and shadowy nature of depression—something that follows a person around, lurking in the background, and occasionally overwhelming them. The “black dog” represents not just a temporary mood, but a heavy, persistent force that feels uncontrollable and inescapable.

Migrant Depression: A Unique, Yet Common Form

Migrants, especially those fleeing conflict, like in Ukraine, often experience a unique form of depression. The sudden loss of home, identity, and community can take a significant toll on mental health. Migrants may struggle to adapt to a new environment while mourning the loss of their old life, often feeling trapped between two worlds, unable to feel at home in either. Feelings of guilt for leaving loved ones behind or survivor’s guilt for escaping only add to the emotional distress.

Endogenous vs. Exogenous Depression

In my work, I’ve encountered both endogenous (biologically driven) and exogenous (environmentally triggered) depression. While the origins may differ, the experience of depression often manifests similarly:

Endogenous Depression arises without a clear external cause, driven by internal factors like brain chemistry or genetics. It feels like a relentless shadow, with no specific reason for the low mood.

Exogenous Depression is linked to external events such as trauma, loss, or major life changes.

Common Patterns in Depression

Regardless of the type, there are common patterns of thought and behavior in depression:

1. Negative Thought Patterns: Cognitive distortions like catastrophizing or black-and-white thinking are common. For example, a migrant might feel they’ll never belong anywhere again, reinforcing hopelessness.

2. Social Withdrawal: Depression often leads to isolation, even though social connections could provide much-needed support.

3. Physical Symptoms: Depression isn’t just emotional; it also manifests physically through chronic fatigue, sleep disturbances, and changes in appetite.

4. Rumination: Many individuals with depression ruminate on past negative experiences or imagined future difficulties, preventing them from focusing on the present or finding solutions.

 Tips for Managing Depression

Though depression may feel overwhelming, there are strategies that can help manage its impact. Here are some tips I often share with clients:

1. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT helps individuals identify and challenge negative thought patterns. For example, instead of thinking, “I’ll never feel happy again,” they can learn to reframe it as, “I’m struggling now, but I’ve felt better before, and I can work towards that again.”

2. Routine and Structure:  Creating a simple daily routine—no matter how basic—can help provide a sense of accomplishment and normalcy.

3. Social Connection: Staying connected to friends, family, or support groups is vital, even when depression makes it difficult.

4. Physical Activity: Even small amounts of physical activity, like walking or stretching, can release mood-boosting endorphins.

5. Seek Professional Support: Whether the depression is endogenous or exogenous, professional help, such as therapy or medication, can be life-changing. Seeking help is not a sign of weakness but a step towards healing.

Conclusion:  The Black Dog Can Be Managed

Depression may feel like an ever-present shadow—a “black dog” that never leaves your side. But with the right support, coping strategies, and professional help, it can be managed. If you or someone you know is struggling with depression, remember, you are not alone. The path to recovery is possible, and there is hope even in the darkest moments.

For those dealing with trauma, major life changes, or even if depression seems to have no clear cause, taking steps toward healing is crucial. Reach out, seek help, and take each day one step at a time.

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